Just because he’s a TEENAGER, and you CAN’T control him, that still doesn’t mean, that you have the RIGHTS to THREATEN your child with a BUTCHER’s KNIFE!!! Another unfit parent, from the Front Page Sections, translated…
A seventeen-year-old, Chen, because he’d had a disagreement with his father on which cram school to enroll in, they’d gotten into a disagreement, he’d packed up his bags, wanted to go and find his own mother, who was already, divorced from his father. His father blocked his path, stood in front of him, with a butcher’s knife, threatened, “NOBODY’s going to leave this house, we will DIE together!”, the father was forced to serve thirty days in jail, and can pay his way out of serving the time.
and, here’s a picture of what NOT to do!!!
After Chen was arrested, he was still very emotional, and the District Attorneys believed, that he may continue to be abusive toward his own offspring, asked the judge for his incarceration; Chen stayed in the local police stations for a little over two weeks’ time, later on, the son came to the station, and begged on his behalf, told the officers, that they’d gotten along fine regularly, that it was because that day, they both got too emotional, he’d refused to sue his own father, and, his ex also proved that Chen loved his son very much, that it may have been how he couldn’t deal with his son, leaving him, that he’d behaved, so drastically.
The judge believed, that the seventeen-year-old is in his puberty years, would behave more impulsively, that the father, taking the traditional authoritarian methods of discipline, it may have the opposite results of the desired behaviors, but, other than causing his son to be scared, Chen’s methods of discipline also caused public endangerment, as well as affected the order of the society, that he will be, serving his sentence, and the judge attempted to educate Chen, that he needed to use a more rational method, to dissolve the issues he was having with his own son.
The verdict stated, that Chen was divorced in 2004, his son and daughter live with him. At the start of last month, Chen wanted his son to pick the internship that’s closer to home, but, his son has a different idea.
another picture of what NOT to do here!!!
They’d gotten into disagreement, the son got angered, and started packing up, said, “I’m going to find mom!”, Chen was so infuriated, that he’d bear-hugged his own son from behind, pressed him down onto the floor, threatened, “It’s either you or me!”, then, he’d gone to the kitchens, grabbed a butcher knife, and, blocked the passage to the front door, prevented his own son from leaving. Chen’s son hollered aloud, “Help me! Call the police now!”, Chen’s daughter had called in for help.
As the police came to the scene, they’d arrested Chen based off of intentional violence toward adolescents. As the judge was overseeing the case, Chen admitted to bear-hugging his own son, used threatening words, as well as trying to prevent his own son from leaving by using a butcher’s knife, blocking his path, but, he’d said, that it was, the right kind of discipline. The judge believed, that the son has the right to come and go, freely in and out of the house, that as a father, he couldn’t use the name of “discipline” or “protection”, and, using a butcher’s knife would be considered as a last resort, and the father did, violate the son’s right to his freedom.
And so, we still have, out-of-control adults over here, because your son wants to walk out of your place, and, you two had just gotten into a serious fight, that still doesn’t give you the right to lose your control or temper for that matter, and threaten your son with a butcher’s knife, and here, the problem is still how emotional the adult get, and this man who’d behaved so awfully IS, an unfit parent!