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Because??? Oh yeah, girls are, WAY, WAY, W-A-Y, better than B-O-Y-S!!! translated…
I felt that special connection to the article, “Says Who Having a Daughter is Not a Blessing in Itself”, I’d wanted to shout aloud, “It’s so wonderful, to have a daughter!”
My father had once sighed about how he didn’t have a son in his life, but now, he’d changed his mind, because as daughters, we’re all, very well-behaved, although we’re all married, we’d not stopped caring about our parents, instead, we’d shown even more love and respect toward them, and, on top of that, they’d also gained the respects from their sons-in-law too, and, all of my uncles were envious, telling them, “You must’ve done something right in a past life, to have such outstanding daughters and sons-in-law, it’s such tragedy, that our sons, are not as half as good as your daughters.”
My friend, Jen is a very kind and gentle daughter to her parents, she’d worked hard, to look after her mother-in-law, as well as her own parents’ houses, and her mother sighed on, “What’s the use of having a son? After he’s married, he’d not come home to visit at all, even, for two consecutive years, he’d spent the New Year’s holidays, with his wife’s side of the family, it’s as if, our ‘only son’ was married off.”
I have a very traditional mother-in-law, I’d recalled, that when my daughter was three years old and I’d, quitted my job, and one day, my mother-in-law asked me, “Do you want to, have another son?”, and said to me, “After you’d had a son, you will have someone to care for you when you’re old and elderly.” Gladly though, my husband didn’t see having a son as that important, that everything should go according to nature, and he’d started, educating my mother-in-law, that the times are changing now, that she shouldn’t, keep hold of her ancient values of having a male child to carry on the family’s last name. And because of how open my husband is, it’d made my life, so much easier.
Someone once described, “having a daughter is having a heart, having a son, is having a set of wings, he will, fly off, at a very young age, to find his own happiness.” And now, I’m truly blessed, to have, “a heart”, and a “set of wings” too. I do believe, that even if, one day, those “pair of wings” managed to fly away, he will still remember his blessings, and come back to visit me every now and then.
So, this, is an article, written for, ALL of you, ANCIENT OLD ladies and OLD men to read, and besides, says W-H-O, having a daughter IS worse than having a son? Oh yeah, because traditionally, those daughters that you have will grow up, and become someone ELSE’s wife, go into someone ELSE’s families, and having a son would always mean, that you will have someone, to take care of you, when you get older, right??? Take a LOOK around, there are, a TON of BAD sons who had wasted their parents’ life’s saving away, constantly needing their parents, to still WIPE up their messes, even AS they’d become, adults out there in the world, so, STOP being so old-school, this is, the NEW A-G-E that we’re living in right now, so, don’t you think, that all of your ANCIENT thought methods should be replaced too??? Uh, D-U-H!!!
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