and no, still NOT my photograph…
Translated…
My great aunt’s style of nagging, cussing me…I rushed toward the bathrooms, with tears, flowing from my eyes, ready, for a good cry.
Before marriage, I was, too blessed, never prepared ANYTHING in the kitchens, after I married, I’d realized, the hardships of needing to prepare the meals. The HARDEST for me was not knowing how to cook, the ancient line of “three days after you wed, you shall go into the kitchens and cook for your husband’s family”, is this, the destinies of all women?
I’d insisted on my values of, never correcting, never training, never obeying, the older women of the family, became an outside diner, and, I’d gotten, nicknamed as “leisurely and not knowing how to accomplish anything” based off of my husband, become someone that the sisters-in-law would want to get as far away from as possible.
The good deeds you do never makes it out of your house, but, what you failed to do gets passed along so very quickly, as a wife, if you’re labeled as a person who doesn’t cook, it’s as if, you’d become a complete sinner, a lot of the women in the population would tell, that controlling your men’s stomachs, you control their hearts, do you NOT know the hardships of working outside the homes for your man? As he’d come home, with a freshly cooked meal on the tables, that would be enough, to make him feel at home, how come, you just are, so unwilling to give, how can you have the heart, to allow a good man, to hunt for food outside the home.
I fell silent, I’d found the ladies who’d been cooking for so long to be my advisors now, but, they just can’t, seem to get through to me……this is not going to work, I will NOT stand for it, let me cook, so you can see, that I can, cook, after all, if you’re living, then, you must eat, right? As for whether or not the foods I’d prepared is edible, well, I can’t give you any guarantees!
And so, this, is the views of a woman who hates to cook, and, if you hate to cook, and are single, then, it would be okay, but, after you’re married, you’d have to learn a few simple dishes, because you won’t be cooking for just Y-O-U-R own sakes, there’s another person you must prepare the meals for now!!!