and no, not my photograph…
On couples’ relationship here, translated…
My wife and I are both, busy nine-to-fivers’, early to rise, late to rest, not only would we get angered in the morning, due to the lack of sleep, we’d also have that fuming feeling from working all day long too. And, the angers from the lack of sleep would dissipate, with the start of our workdays, but the angers we’d held in during work would get extended into our bedtime hours. At first, I’d believed, that we can eat out every once in a while for supper, it’d save up the time, and the energies, but, my wife slapped that idea down, insisted on cooking herself, as it was, more sanitary in her belief, and, there was, that uneasy air between us because of this.
It’s just that, working all day long, and afterwards, you’d still had to go into the heated kitchen, you can imagine the hardships, and my wife would from time to time, throw a fit; especially when she saw me, relaxing in front of the television, she’d become even angrier, and, I can only, take her anger in silence.
Day after day, work became war, and, returning home, there’s, another war waiting to happen, and, I just, can’t do this any longer. Later on, I’d finally found a way, to dissolve that anger that my wife had after work, not getting back home the same time as she does. Sometimes, I’d arrive home early, and would start picking up around the house, take in the laundry hanging on the back, wiping down the furniture, the tables, and, as my wife entered, she saw how clean the house was, and, she’d not, take her angers out on me anymore.
Sometimes, when I’d worked late at the office, I’d called her ahead of time, to tell her, and asked her if she needed something picked up? Whether or not she’d wanted me to bring some extra items for supper? Helping my wife relax a bit, so she could breathe easier, although I’d get nagged by her for it, but, this tension that was in the air, turned mild now.
It is hard, working away from home, and, after getting back home, if the husband and the wife can show some empathy toward each other, then, neither one of you has any reason to get angry at the other person anymore!
So, this, is from someone’s experiences, and, this man was very kind and understanding toward his wife, and he’d found an effective way, to dissolve her negative emotions, coming home from work too, and, it’d just taken him, a little extra thought…
still NOT my photograph…
Life, the Obstacle Course 