A woman, troubled about her husband and his female acquaintance, a Q&A, translated…
Q: He’d promised to NOT call, but I just, can’t be sure…
Di who’d been married for twenty-five years, from her husband’s LINE account, she’d found, that one of his ex from before they were married was texting him intimate messages, and asked him when he’ll have the time to meet up with her. As Di saw the message, she was furious, she’d immediately deleted the other woman from her husband’s LINE contacts. The next day, Di asked her husband about it, her husband told her to not get mad, and stated, that they were, just friends, and would meet up to exchange their thoughts from time to time, nothing more, and, they’d already agreed, to be best friends to one another for life already too.
Di thought it was impossible, and so, her husband texted the other woman, “My wife knows about us, let’s just stop LINING each other from here on out!”, but the other woman phoned, grilled why Di would care about it that much? And, as for what other things she and her husband had discussed, Di has absolutely NO idea, just knew, that after the other woman had a long conversation with her husband, she’d told him, “If your wife minded so very much, then, let’s, cut off contact then!”, and the husband also stated that he wasn’t contacting her again.
Although her husband swore he would NEVER get back in touch with his ex, Di however, couldn’t overlook the fact, that he’d treated her as one of his best friends, and not told her about it. Di said, that she’d become very cold, and asked her husband for a divorce, what, should she do now?
A My Advice:
From the angle of the wellbeing of the marriage, this, would be a good thing, at least, it’d given Di a warning: keep a close eye on your marriage, and, you should have the basic levels of trust toward your husband, but, you still also needed to keep your guards up about your marriage too. After the lies were busted, you must also be gentle, and working things out, that, is the key, to destroy all outside influences.
Although her husband had contacts with other women in private, this however, isn’t a HUGE offense, how this will end is entirely dependent on D’s attitude over the matter. You can get emotional, but you need to know when to stop your emotional behaviors, at least, your husband was willing to admit wrongdoing, and showed that he was, genuine; if D kept fighting with him, I’m afraid, that her husband will lose his patience. Rather than pushing him away, why not pull him closer to you, let go of your anger for now, arm yourself up with a gentleness (of course, you still need to observe him for a bit), the most important thing now, is to strengthen your relationship.
So, because this loser had, admitted to wrong doing, that means, that he’s, off the hook? Are you F***ING shitting me, if it were the woman, in the man’s shoes, do you think that her husband would let HER, or her affair slide? Of course N-O-T, and I get, that it’s important, to keep the household harmonious, but, this, is asking WAY too much here!
and no, not my sketch here…
Life, the Obstacle Course 