You will NEVER be able to AVOID this, even IF you have a higher-than-“normal” E.Q., because your offspring will always AND forever, feel the STRAINS between the two of you, adults.
Taken hostage by our emotions, and, once you get trapped, by both our emotions, you will find yourself, immersed, kid, by the angers, the resentments, we had kept, so locked up, out of sight, from you. And, regardless of how well we think we’d hid them (the negative emotions???) from you, you will always, feel the strains between us, because you are, THAT emotional punching bag.
Taken hostage by our emotions, you were, since you were very young, and, because how young you were when our emotions took you hostage, you’d become, reliant, on them (our emotions???), and, you had, grew to become, dependent on our emotions, even though, they weren’t, good for you at all.
Taken hostage by our emotions, that, is what’s bound to happen to you, as we, your parents were also, taken hostage, by our parents’ emotions too!
And so, this vicious cycle still rolls, until, there are, too many DEATHS to account for, and then, it’s too late, for save them all, because, they had, ALL, been, SACRIFICED, on the altars, of our marriages………