You can only W-I-S-H, that everything in life is as clear cut as black and white (without the grays???), right or wrong, but it isn’t.
When the stages of development meshed together, like how life gets sometimes, whereas you’d originally believed, that you were supposed to finish with one level (like in those computer games???), before you’re able to move on to the next levels? But, unfortunately, life don’t WORK that way!
The stages of development (no matter what branch you’re using, psychosocial, psychodynamic, or whatever ELSE is available out there, how the hell should I know???) are meshed together for a reason, that life is NOT as clear-cut, black or white, right OR wrong (unless you’re talkin’ ‘bout morality!!!) as it seems, and, you are merely, one of the many, struggling, to achieve that state of equilibrium…
When the stages of development meshed together, before you had completed one level (like in the video games???), you think you CAN move on, to the next levels? Think again, IF you don’t master what you’re supposed to in the previous levels of development, how do you THINK you’ll fare, when the more difficult things come later on in life??? Everything is still a BUILT-UP you know???
Life, the Obstacle Course 