The observations made from someone who was just there, on the education of the children, translated…
Bay Chen, since he was five, he was a bully, that every single child in the neighborhood tried to avoid confrontations with, he has intelligence beyond his years, but, he’s easily angered, and is always looking to pick a fight with someone. If he’d had frictions of the verbal or the physical kinds with another child, he would get angry and start throwing a temper tantrum. And when the other parents see this happening, they would immediately pull their own children to apologize to Bay Chen, otherwise, if Bay start to kick and punch, nobody CAN stop him. And, Bay Chen’s father NEVER stepped in, NEVER raised his voice, to tell his son, that it wasn’t okay to do that, at most, he’d told the other parents, “Bay is just a bit naughty is all.”
Because of the adults’ letting him slide, Bay Chen became wilder, every time he’d shown up, the children who were there originally, chasing and playing happily changed, and, even as the elders tried to stop him from bossing other children around, he’d talked back to them too.
Star who’s in the same grade, same school, at the same age as Bay got in more than his share of confrontations with Bay. Once, Star’s mom, seeing how the two of them were beating on one another again, she could NO longer hold it back any longer, she’d started screaming, and, Bay Chen had, stood up straight, and listened to her, when Star’s mom asked both the kids to apologize to one another, Bay Chen did it too.
The parents finally understood, that it wasn’t Bay Chen who wouldn’t behave, it was just that his parents had spoiled him rotten. And, ever since when Bay Chen got into confrontation with other children, the adults would treat the children equally, gave them their lessons, and, Bay’s behaviors had become way better.
And so, turns out, this kid wasn’t really EVIL at all, he just needed order, discipline in his life, and, because HIS own parents wouldn’t or couldn’t give it to him, therefore, it’s up to the OTHER adults in the area, to TEACH him right from wrong, and this still just shows how important it is, NOT to spoil your young, imagine how this little boy would behave, IF the adults hadn’t realized what he’d needed, he’d probably kept bullying other children, and, growing up, he’d become someone who breaks the law too.
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