Translated…
The moment I’d entered the office, saw how my husband who was there, to pick me up from after work, that fire of anger rose up in me, I’d started shouting at him, “Didn’t I leave a note on the desk for you to drive my car into the school’s garage? I’m now, late for my clarinet lesson, all because of you!” at which time, all the coworkers lifted up their ears, heard me angrily, screamed at my husband, and, nobody DARED stopped me.
As we left my office, my husband drove, with a straight face, after I calmed back down, I’d realized, that I’d lost control, after six classes, I was already very fatigued, and yet, I have my clarinet lesson today, and I’d fallen behind, and so, I’m stressed out.
As I got off the car to buy a bottle of water, I’d bought a jar of my husband’s favorite yogurt, as a way of apologizing to him, after I’d said my apologies, he’d finally opened up his lips, “I wasn’t sitting in your seat, nor did I see the note you’d left, you’d gone off on me in front of your coworkers, I feel so ashamed, I just love you so much, that doesn’t mean that I won’t get angry.”
My husband always prided himself on being a good natured man, not saying those words of anger, and I, kept wanted to test his bottom line, made him angry from time to time, and, I’d gotten mad over it when he said he was “tolerating” me. And, toward his own thoughtless errors, he’d made me live by his same rules, and it’d caused me to get affected greatly, and, my anger had nowhere to go, and in the end, I’d found him a way out, then, worked hard, to soothe myself.
I told him, a lot of the couples are actually very in love, but, because when each other was feeling off, neither one spoke of it to the other person on time, and, it’d caused this bad feeling to build up between them, to the point, that they ended up getting divorced.
Between the kin, not only is “reason” important, love is even more so, constantly tolerating your loved ones may not be beneficial at all, only through communicating well, will the two of you get along perfectly.
This just shows, no matter how well you THINK you know one another, there are still areas that you may not be aware of, and because the two of you had been together for so long, you’d taken your modes of interactions for granted, and this, is where the trouble starts…
Life, the Obstacle Course 