On parenting, translated…
My coworker, Yu’s son asked her one day, “Mommy, do older brothers need to allow their younger sisters get everything? Why are you kinder to her?”, Yu thought awhile, and didn’t recall ordering her son, to allow his younger sister have her ways, and believed, that she’d treated them both with a ton of love, and so, she’d told her son, that she’d never had him allowing his baby sister to have everything, “but because your sister is younger, she doesn’t understand enough, shouldn’t you give her a chance, to learn too?”
Yu asked her son to think back for a bit, normally, whenever he’d wanted something to eat, when it’s within the limits, she’d always worked hard, to fulfill his wants, and, she’d asked if her son only saw how she was treating his baby sister with kindness, and not realizing, that mom’s treating him well too?
The siblings will compare, and the key is in how the parents handle the matter. Getting loud and screaming would only make the child feel worse, and believe that the parents don’t love her/him as much, Yu used communication, so her son could think about the issues rationally, so he can come to his own conclusions, and naturally, she’d helped resolved his feeling of being treated unfairly.
So, this, is how a mother with a high E.Q. does it, she didn’t FLY into a rage, and start lecturing her son, instead, she’d used reasons, to help the child see, that she wasn’t unfair, that it was, because his baby sister was younger, and didn’t know as much as he, and, this little boy will grow up, into a very rational person, because he has a mom who’s using rational ways, of educating him.
Life, the Obstacle Course 