The Schools are Drafting Up a Rule Against High-Schoolers Being in Relationships: if We Can Talk about Love Rationally, Then, Why Would It Need to be Banned?

Written by a school instructor, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Da-An Technical High School had drafted up a banning order for relationship in its campus, causing the students to react.  But, if you talk of love rationally, why, would it need to be banned?

There was a male student who got into his first choice who’d asked me, could the relationships not weather the distances?  Would the couples who started off strong in high school, gone to separate universities really end up, breaking up?  I felt, that this student was trapped, in the whirlpool of love, and was fazed, I’d smiled and told him, if the two of you shared same views about the relationship, and, you get to decide, how much time to put into the relationships.  Being serious in a relationship, that, is taking the responsibilities for love.

Dating, is a required “course” in life.  There are a lot of students who’d allowed their relationship to be open, helped each other, and, both their interpersonal relationships, as well as their grades are improving, and, love became a positive kind of stimulus.  But, there are more students who used a not-so-good attitude toward love, not knowing the real meaning of it.  During the break time between classes, the girls would sit in the guys’ laps, the couples, because of the peer pressures, openly kiss or fondle one another in school, believing, that they’re in love, so, they don’t have to follow the boundaries.  And when love becomes a negative kind of stimulus, at least, the grades would be bad, and, at most, it may lead to teenage pregnancies, murders, causing more problems for the society.

Why is love so hard?  It’d shown, how little the lesson of love is talked about in the forums of education.  When someone feels trapped by a relationship, they are more than likely, to wrap themselves up inside a cocoon, keep hitting the dead-ends, even, do things that hurt the other person, or one may regret.  In the schools, they should set up a course on genders started in the elementary years, so the students can openly talk about love and sex, to learn, that it’s okay, for them, to share these thoughts and feelings with their parents or their friends, so they wouldn’t get trapped by the feelings, and turn to bad ways to resolve, causing more tragedies in the world.

Because there ARE no such course, that teaches us how to break up peacefully, or how to deal, with the aftermath of having sex, of the afterwards of having tasted the forbidden fruits, that, is why there are, so many tragedies, and that, is an area the law makers need to improve on when drafting up the education views.