A Q&A, translated…
Q: Would the Husband Who’d Sent His Nude Photos to a Coworker Considered Cheating on Her?
Madam Plum, who was troubled by her husband’s psychological infidelity wrote, Madam Plum’s husband would often LINE his female coworker, to chit chat, several times, Madam Plum found, that they’d talked about the sexually illicit stuff, and the female coworker had even asked her husband to take shots of himself nude, in the showers, to send it to her, and her husband did it too.
For this, Madam Plum argued with her husband, and her husband password protected his cell, so Madam Plum couldn’t spy on him any longer, and insisted, that he’d cut off contact with the female coworker; but her husband became colder and more aloof toward Madam Plum by the day, other than feeling taken, she is also, insecure. She wanted to know, if she could SUE both her husband and his female coworker for obstruction of family or not, and, for the sake of her child, should she, keep, her marriage intact?
A My Opinion
First, I must remind Madam Plum, there’s still a LONG way to go, until she’s able to SUE her husband and his coworker. To sue someone for obstruction of family, you must prove, that there are, FACTS, of the husband, committing ADULTERY with another woman OUTSIDE of the home, and you must do so, without breaking the laws.
The husband denied having an affair, locked up his cell phone, and became aloof toward her, perhaps, he was angered that he was, caught. The futures of their marriage is still uncertain right now, but, Madam Plum discovering this before it got too out of hand, may be a good thing too, the key to how this will work out lies in Madam Plum’s attitude and the steps she will be taking afterwards.
To tell the truth, if you really want to fight, then, try hard, to “prove” that your husband WAS having an affair, to proceed, with the divorce processes; but, Madam Plum doesn’t sound like she really wanted to divorce her husband, the best way is to let her husband slide, to NOT stress herself out on the possibilities of her husband having an affair, instead, trying, to figure out, what steps she could take, to get the marriage back, to make the love that’s lost temperatures, heated back up once more. At least, you must increase your own abilities as a woman, in case one day, you became single again, you may need to support yourself economically. No matter how this ends, Madam Plum’s life wouldn’t be in total ruins.
And so, this, is based off of a suspicion that her husband was being unfaithful to her, as she’d found the messages that he’d sent to a female coworker, and, this, is an emotional kind of infidelity, and, whether or not the husband DID have an affair with his female coworker still doesn’t really matter, IF you sent your sexually illicit photographs to someone ELSE outside your current relationship (husbands/wives, one at a time), then, you have committed, ADULTERY in my opinion, because psychological, physical, and ANY other way of infidelity IS still infidelity!
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