So, you’d found a “good catch”, huh??? Translated…
From before when I was still dating my husband before we wedded, my mother would often acted against us. Because I have a double masters’, and, my husband only graduated from a community college; I’d worked in a company that’s publicly traded, as a technician, he, worked as a fixer upper for the freezer systems, without the steady source of income. Without any property to his name, no matter how you looked at it, he couldn’t measure up to the standard my mother had, for her son-in-law in ANY way, but, because I’d trusted, that he has a good character, I’d still, marched, bravely, down that aisle, and married him, in the sounds of my family, relatives, and friends against me doing so.
After we married, he didn’t have any of the worrisome behaviors that all women feared over their husbands, on the contrary, a lot of his better qualities, started becoming even MORE apparent, after we’d lived together as a couple. For instance, he’d taken care of ALL of the household chores, treated my families like they’re his own kin, and, when we’d had disagreements, he’d always put up with me, would apologize to me, until I’d stopped fuming.
As my child came, he’d added another role to his status: a fitting dad, worked during the daytime, and, after work, he’d still come home, and played with my child, helped bathed him, and doing laundry, along with other odds and ends in the house, he doesn’t play video or online games, nor does he drink, OR smoke the biggest recreation of his was going outdoors on the weekends, and, becoming the photographer for the families.
Maybe, based off of his earnings, we may NEVER get the chance to live in the mansions, or drive those name brand cars, and we couldn’t possibly afford to send our kid to the dual-language private academies, or send him to private colleges; but, my child can grow up in a harmonious home, and took after his father’s attitude of kindness and gentle nature, it’s a wealth, that NO money can buy.
And now, I can finally tell my mother who feared that I’d have it hard for marrying him, “Chi is extremely kind to me, so, don’t worry anymore.”
And so, this is a couple, who have totally DIFFERENT level of status quo, level of education, and yet, because this man is extremely kind to his wife, to make up for the lack of his level of education, etc., etc., etc., that, is why this, is a perfect match, and this also tells us, that we should not fall prey to the myths of a well-educated person is going to make a good spouse.