I’d Come to Understand, Having a Mother is a Blessing as I’d Become a Father Myself

The love and tolerance of his mother, is what helped him become who he is today, on the Front Page Sections, translated…

“Mothers are the best in the world, a child with a mother is cherished.”  On the eves of every Mother’s Day, when I’d recall this line from the song, I’d felt deeply.  I am a father, for twenty years, and had, given everything for my child, and that, was how I’d come to understand, how much my own mother put in, to raise me up.

My mother is a complete country woman, very plain and kind, but, in her ordinariness, her words were often filled with wisdom.  She’d never spoken of the love she had for her children, instead, she’d shown it by acting on it.  As I’d gone into the high school years, I’d started living away from home, and, I’d used the phones, to connect with my mother.  Every time I’d gone home on break, and as I was leaving home again, my mother would often pack up ALL the fruits, for me to take with.

Because since I was in the elementary years, , I’d picked on the girls with a group of my friends, or getting into physical altercations with my other classmates.  My homeroom teacher from the fifth and sixth grade levels had mentioned to my classmates’ parents how I’m an awful person, and naturally these words, would get into my parents’ ears, but my mother had never doubted that her son is kind and simple-of-mind.  In my mother’s tolerating me, and allowing me to work through my teenage turbulences, after middle school, my rebellious stage was over, and I’d started, focusing on my studies, and all the way, into the Teachers’ University.

My mother’s tolerance and believing in me, had helped me stay on course, it’d given me self-confidences.  As Mother’s Day approaches, I hope, that all the children in the world can understand the hardships of the mother, and their love for their young, and treat one’s own parents well.

This, is a man’s experience, of how his mother’s tolerances of him, had helped him through his teenage rebellious stage, and, without his mother’s kindness and understanding of what the son was going through, he probably wouldn’t have sailed through those turbulent teens that easily.