How to EFFECTIVELY deal with it, translated…
Other than showing self-confidence when dealing with rumors online, you also have to have the courage, to be disliked by others, and what you need more, is professional assistance.
The actress, Yo-Ying Yang, because she couldn’t handle the trash talks about her from online, she’d committed suicide a few days ago, it’d sparked everybody’s discussions. Shen-Wen Lien felt especially close to the matter, because he’d been anonymously attacked for an entire year’s time.
Based off of the experiences of the neurology beliefs, the ability to absorb or to disregard the information has to do with genetics and ones’ own concepts of the self. Whether it be stars, or actresses and actors, because they’re exposed, for a long time, underneath the spotlight, everybody looks at them underneath a microscope, and, their work is unstable too. If the person didn’t care about what the outside world is saying, then, s/he may disregard all comments, and lock oneself up in one’s own mind; but, if the person cared about what others are saying about her/him, then, depression may come to the person, which makes the person, at risk for suicide.
Those ranters had, long-term been anonymous, making the rumors flow, and even sparked the assaults that can destroy a human being, is the ISIS of the online world, and, we’re waiting for laws to get written and implemented, to put an end to their bad behaviors.
It’s just, that those stars with millions of fans, could they understand, that having fans doesn’t make them stars? These fans can surely give you kudos, to put you up, on that high pedestal, but at the same times, they can also criticize you, quite harshly.
A young life, because she couldn’t deal with being bullied online, had been lost, it would leave a ton of regrets, sure, and we’re all hoping, that this sort of tragedy won’t happen again.
So here, I recommend, that the public should remember the following few points, from keeping oneself from being victimized:
- With a set level of self-confidence, know ones’ own flaws, and, change the criticisms into the drive for you to improve yourselves.
- Nobody can gain everybody’s love; and, nobody’s absolutely perfect, have the courage, to be disliked.
- Divert your attention onto something else, to show your better qualities; or take a leave of absence, to discuss with someone, to reorganize one’s own future plans.
- Find a suitable counselor, or an elder who can offer you the consoles and advice, to give you the help and assistance you need.
Anyways, the incident of Yo-Ying Yang, the actress is enough, to give the world a warning, especially for the public figures, the actors and actresses, the high-up managers, if you’re having troubles with moods long-term, not feeling well in the body and the mind, don’t just find a psychiatrist and pick up your medications, instead, you need someone to talk to, so, you can help yourselves, untie that knot inside of your hearts.
And this, is still, ALL hindsight, after the fact, and, cyberbullying IS a huge problem, in this day and age, because anybody can say anything, about ANYBODY online, true or untrue, and, there would be those who just hit that “Kudos” button on their FB or whatever, which makes cyberbullying even HARDER to catch and to punish!
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