What, is it gonna take, I wonder??? Translated…
For some, it takes a carat diamond, some needed ninety-nine long-stem roses, and, others, a house, a car, a huge sum of money, to make one’s wife happy, I’m like most other men, who don’t take the time, to prepare the huge diamond ring, flowers, or house, but I just needed to put some heart into it, my wife would be loving me for life.
I’m not the kind that gets stuck on my wife at all, and I really don’t like doing the chores at all, but, whenever my wife needed me, I’m right there, like if there’s a downpour during working hours, if my wife is dressed up completely, I’d rather be late to my own work, and would personally, drive my wife to the office, and, it would totally make her feel, that my getting the new car is necessary, and she’d commend on my gentleness in front of all her friends too.
Or, when I see my wife, working nights to finish her report, at which time, I’d volunteer to do the dishes, mop the floors, the laundry loads, it would gain me the award for being “The BEST Husband EVER”, the gentleness and kindness of the husband, only the wife can understand. In the following looks of gratitude of my wife, it’s as if, she’s telling you, “honey, come home early tonight”, there would be something wonderful, waiting for you then.
But, it’s also a FACT, that men HATE household chores, but, the key here, is to do them, without being asked or told, because the ladies always believed, that “being active, is a show of love”, doesn’t this sound familiar! You will find, that those items that you didn’t get to, after your wives nagged you about, would not only have the desired effects like above, and it’d become something you’re supposed to handle, instead of a show of love for your wife, and even, it might become, an igniting point for your arguments later on.
There IS a huge difference in being ACTIVE and being TOLD, I hereby, advise all men, that in handling of household chores, we must do it with love, that way, our wives would be glad, and, it’d guarantee, that you would have it well.
The husband and wife should treat each other with love AND respect, don’t take women, handling the chores as natural, men should become “Cinderella” at any time, and, actively help one’s wife out, the effects are better compared to any amount of treasures, or assets, and, you don’t need to wreck your brains out on what to get your wife. Bringing the moon and the stars, pale by comparison to doing the chores without being told or being asked to.
Start doing the chores, without the wife asking you to, that, is a way you CAN show love, and, you will, receive a TRUCK load of your wife’s love in return, and that, is the way, to earn the love.
See how little WE want from you? And, CAN you, pick up your own socks, take out the TRASH, do the dishes every now and then, without being told? HECK no! Because ALL of you are waiting, to BE ordered around by women, and, that turns us into NAGS, and, we do NOT enjoy NAGGING, at A-L-L………