Accepting One’s Own Imperfections

“I don’t need your validation or judgement of my existence.” I know the genesis of every scar on my body, even the invisible ones. I know what kinds of demons go bump in the night. I know what it’s like to be haunted, used, and walked over repeatedly. But worst of all, I know what […]

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The News of Deaths by Child Abuse…

These used to get to me like crazy, but, now, I’d just, thumb across each and every piece of news story, like they’re, no more than ordinary…

The news of deaths by child abuse, how many had there been?  How many MORE will there be?  There had been, incidents of deaths by child abuse in the past, so I know, that what I’d, thumbed across, isn’t a first, but, why can’t it be the very last?  I’d, wondered…because there will always BE unfitting parents who’d BRUTALIZED their own young, and they’re not even, fitted to have children, and yet, they’re, still, popping them out left AND right, can you believe it!

like this young child, who hadn’t done ANYTHING Y-E-T, ddi s/he deserve this???  Of course N-O-T, but it was still, done TO her/him!!!

The news of deaths by child abuse, when will there come a day, when there would be, NO such news anywhere on earth, huh?  And, how long’s it gonna take, for ALL of you out there, to become, fully aware, of the situations at hand, and realize that hey, this SHIT is happening, right NEXT door to us (that kid that always goes to school with the long-sleeve shirts and everything, NO matter how hot the weather gets???  Or that woman who wore dark shades, even when there’s, NO sun???)………

wiwith the BEFORE photo on the left, and the AFTER on the right!  From online…

The news of death of child abuse, well, that’s, just another young life that’s, lost, I didn’t cause it, so, I’m, not responsible!  Yeah uh, that, is what YOU think!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Police Showed, that Girl, 10, Died from Child Abuse Injuries Suffered as an Infant

This is, truly, TRAGIC!!!  Off of CBSNEWS

Investigators say the March 2016 death of a 10-year-old girl was due to child abuse she sustained when she was six months old, according to the Prince George’s County Police Department.

Detectives were first notified that Elanis Milfort suffered a head injury on June 8, 2006. Her father, Lionel Milfort, was arrested and charged with child abuse soon after. He served time in prison and was released in June of 2014.

can you imagine how someone can hurt a child so young so badly?  I surely can’t!  Photo found online…

The young girl died in 2016 three days after surgery for a spinal condition that police say was the result of her infant head trauma.

In late June, 2017, a medical examiner ruled her death a homicide. Cold case investigators are now looking into the case, and the county prosecutor’s office will decide whether charges will be filed.

how can someone do such an awful thing to such a young child, do you ever wonder???  Photo found online…

This is, truly, tragic, to think of how much this young child must’ve suffered, at the hands of an adult who should’ve loved, and cared for her, but didn’t, and, I’m still, MORE than certain, that this, won’t BE the last of its “kind”, a death caused by serious physical abuse!!!

 

 

 

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The Sixty-Year-Old Sex Industry Worker Contracted A.I.D.S., Still Took Over 800 More Johns

How the epidemic of A.I.D.S. is spreading like a wildfire currently, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

A Middle-Aged Hooker Who is Close to Sixty Years Old Found that She’d Contracted A.I.D.S. Last Month When She Went Through Her Scheduled S.T.D. Screens; She’d Taken in Over a Hundred Johns by the Month, and from the End of Last Year to This Day, There May Have Been Over Eight Hundred Men with Whom She’d Had Sex with.  Because of How Many “Clients” She’d Had, the Taipei City’s United Hospital Called for Those Who’d Had Sex with Hookers in the Wanhua Region to Get the Blood Tests Soon as Possible.

The Taipei United Hospital pointed out, that there are currently, a total of 4,000 individuals who’d contracted A.I.D.S. who are currently being monitored, the younger generations of sex workers are more prone to contract chlamydia and gonorrhea, and the older generations of sex workers were found to have contracted syphilis, that A.I.D.S. infections were, quite rare; the last H.I.V. positive case was back in 2014, and, three years later, there were sex workers who’d been found, to have contracted A.I.D.S.

not my picture…

The sex workers, although were categorized as an illegal industry, but in order to make them more educated, make them more aware, the medical prevention center had normally interacted regularly with the sex workers, providing them with condoms, lubricants, they’d also provided the A.I.D.S. scans by the year, and, each and every time, there would be sixty, to seventy sex workers who’d voluntarily gone into the hospitals for the scans.

Chuang pointed out, that the younger sex workers will pick and choose their clients, and required that the clients wear a condom, but for the older generations, they may not demand this, because they wanted to make the money, and thus, they’d become, the high-risk group for contracting A.I.D.S.  The woman who was found to be H.I.V. positive was very good in her trade, had multiple partners, with a set clientele, and toward those with whom she’d had sex with regularly, she may let her guards down, but because of her age, it would be, easier, for her, to contract the diseases.

these are the ways, that H.I.V. can be passed from one person to the next…not my chart…

This, is the importance, of going through the needed scans for H.I.V. for sex trade workers, because if you don’t know you’re infected, you may well infect someone else, and, the individual with whom you’d had sex with will infect more, and before we know it, the vast majority of the population had, contracted A.I.D.S., and that, would be just, terrible!

 

 

 

 

 

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Gender-Appropriate Ways, of Allowing Our Children to Dress Themselves…

This is considered, the parents’ attempts, of helping their young, to establish their individualism, which the outside world shuns???

labeled as “Common Gay Boy” by the online community, photo off of Twitter…

Gender-appropriate ways, of allowing our children to dress themselves, meaning, that all those little boys must be in their cute little trousers/shorts, or whatever that “defines” them into males, and the little girls would be in those god DAMN tiny skirts, dresses, and lacy-rimmed socks.

But, what about what’s lost, in MAKIKNG your own young dress up as such?  Their sense of individuality, what if, they don’t, want to, conform, to the general expectations (not that they would even be aware, seeing how young they currently are right now???) of what their assigned genders should be (either male OR female), and you pride yourselves, on living in a society, where EVERYBODY is equally accepted despite her/his gender-orientation, or how s/he wants to dress her/himself?

This is, just another way, that society can, affect us, force us into conforming with WHATEVER it expected us to be (the roles we’re all assigned to play in our separate little corners???), and it’s just, BULLSHIT!

who says, he can’t dress up as Wonder Woman???  photo from online…

Why the HELL shouldn’t a little boy wear a pink fluffy dress, if it makes him happy?  Or a little girl, dressing herself up in camouflage, because she feels like it, huh?  Stop restricting your children like this, and just, allow them to be, to have the freedom to do what makes them happy, after all, the adult world they will grow up to live in, is still, too full of SHIT, too cruel, and if you, as parents, don’t protect them from that while they are still younger, who’s going to, huh???

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I Won’t Say, that She’s in a Better Place…

I won’t say, that she’s in a better place, because I know, that that, is BULLSHIT!  I won’t say, that she’s in a better place, that her tiny body no longer needed to, have those tubes, coming in and out of her, that she’s, better off dead…

not my photo…

I won’t say, that she’s in a better place, because I don’t know that for sure, as I’d never, been, to the Great Beyond myself, but all I can offer you, is a shoulder you can lean on, someone you can find the social, emotional support you’ll ever need!

I won’t say, that she’s in a better place, but, any other places is better than this, considering how ill she fell before her death, she couldn’t even eat, couldn’t even urinate, or defecate during her final days, and, watching her suffer, it, must’ve been, extraordinarily difficult for you…

offering the support that one another needed, not my photo…

I won’t say, that she’s in a better place, but, her sufferings had, ended, finally, after almost six-months of struggles, of critical notices from the hospital, she’d finally decided, it was, time, for her to leave, and, left behind, the sadness, the sorrows, the losses, she’d, made you all feel over her death.

I still won’t say, that she’s in a better place, you’re not even in that better place, and you’d, looked after her since she’d, fallen ill, and, you’re the ones, hit with the strongest senses of loss after she’d been, gone………

 

 

 

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Of the 230 Million Children Left Behind, Thirty Percent Aren’t Being Looked After

Abandonment of children, in CHINA, for the sakes of, providing for their own young, but in the children’s mind, they’re, being, LEFT behind by their parents, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

From the Not-for-Profit Organization’s White Papers, Over Ten-Percent of Children Can’t See Their Parents Once a Year, and with a Higher Rate of Students Experiencing Deaths of Their Parents Being Too High, Suspect It Was Only the Children, Venting Out Their Angers.

children, left alone, to grow up on their own in China…photo from online…

The term “Children Left Behind” referred to those children whose parents went into the cities to work, and they’re left, to live on their own in the countries.  They normally stay with either parents, their grandparents or other relatives, friends.  The children left behind had become, a hard-to-solve social problem in China in these past couple of years.

The Beijing’s Not-for-Profit organization “On the Way to School” did a survey and found, that in the schools of the farming villages in China, there were 26.1 percent of students who were left behind, and those who are cared for by their mothers, with their fathers away and working takes up 26.9 percent, and with the mothers working away, 5.1 percent, totaling up to 58.1 percent of local children.

The investigations found, that over half of the children who were left behind by both parents had seen their parents less than twice per year.  Of these, there were, forty percent of children who’d only seen their parents one to twice per year, and, over 13.6 percent of children left behind don’t get to see their parents once a year.

The reports disclosed the how much not having the parents around had affected these children in school or at home.  Of the surveyed students, 11.4 percent of the students stated that their parents passed away, and about 7.9 percent of the students stated that their parents dying had no affect on them, which was not the reality, and the officials suspected that these children were, merely, venting toward their own parents.

imagine children as young as these, without their parents to watch over them…photo from online…

And there were issues of behaviors in school, scholastic performances in these children who were left behind, but hey, money IS hard to come by, and I know you have mouths you need to feed, and, the costs of raising a kid is getting higher and higher, you need to find better work, that, is why, in the name of giving the best you can to your young, you’d, gone away, left them, without realizing, that hey, maybe my daughter/son needed me to be RIGHT there with her/him, at his current developmental stage in her/his life.

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